For many of us we are raised on a diet of romance from fairy tale princes and princesses to Hollywood and Bollywood films and Mills and Boon books. Our heroes and heroines fall hopelessly in love and live happily ever after. Often when we do enjoy that falling in love and tie the knot or settle down together, our love becomes conditional on our partners changing in some way.
We may want them to stop smoking, pick up more around the house, earn more, be at home more, be less irritable, be more expressive, exercise more, exercise less! Often the exact same qualities that we fell in love with become the characteristics we want to change. At the extreme we can become resentful, blaming, angry and disillusioned and this can erode our love.
We are not with our spouses or great loves of our life out of coincidence. We have signed soul contracts before we were born. Often we have a karmic debt to settle for our spouses and partners are our greatest teachers in life. And we may share many lives together. Unconsciously, they help us practive the universal laws of unconditional love to ourselves and others. They give us instrumental lessons of power – how to stand within our power, whole unto ourselves without needing the energy of our partners to make us feel whole.
Do you have a need to be needed? Do you martyr yourself by always putting your loved one and family first because you don’t feel worthy? Do you fear loving fully because of the risk of rejection? Holding yourself back, keeping your love locked tightly inside?
The ultimate relationship with a soul is that of the twin flame. Your twin flame is born from the same soul egg. The two of you part at birth and go through reincarnations separately, learning through your own journeys.
Twin flames are the perfect balance, the perfect combination of male and female energies, of yin and yang. Wherever twin flames exist in the universe they always balance each other. And that yearning for the perfect soul mate is the memory in our DNA that our twin flames are out there waiting for us as we are waiting for them.
But we will only be reunited with our twin flames when we ascend, when we have evolved within ourselves. When both step into the seventh dimension and we vibrate with pure love and light like the angels. It is one of the most inspiring reasons to work on our ascension. In Velocity Ascension Source gives a special visualisation to help you connect to your twin flame at a soul level.
The journey towards unconditional and pure love starts with the self. Love yourself, for only when you truly love and forgive yourself can you truly love and forgive another. This is the key to ascension and to preparing yourself to meet your twin flame.
About Helena Mahatey
Author of the channelled book Velocity Ascension, coming 2013
Helena Mahatey is an experienced international development professional. Trained asan environmental economist, until recently she was a senior advisor to the British government’s international aid programme in climate change and the environment. For the past 15 years she has provided advice, designed and managed programmes of activities that improve the welfare of the poorest in the world. She is clairaudient, a teacher of the Angel Connection School, and is currently channelling Velocity Ascension, a book from Source. She divides her time between South Africa, where she is based with her family, and Cornwall, UK.